Dear Christian…I think you will note a theme in my writing:GRACE!! I am so desperately in need OF it. Grace…even the sound of the word brings comfort. Comfort is another wonderful word; it is something we, as Christians, often do for our brothers and sisters in Christ. I have immersed myself in Spurgeon this week and it has comforted me, may the following excerpts do the same for you.
Let’s explore comfort and grace through the eyes of the Prince of Preachers, Charles H. Spurgeon:
“The old man sitting in the damp prison cell is truly alone. Winter is coming on and he is without a coat. He is a prominent Christian; still no throngs stand at the prison gate demanding his release. He is a leader of leaders, but no witnesses come to his trial to vouch for his innocence. He is a scholar, yet he has no books. His name has once been popular, his needs met. He has known the comfort of a wife who has been gone for a long time now. He has enjoyed the closeness of friendship. Yet now he is alone, imprisoned for his faith. Nearby there is a group of believers, a group to whom he has often preached. Surely someone there has a coat and books. Surely someone will at least visit him and even defend him. But only one person comes, an old friend who has remained loyal. The old man writes a letter to a younger man whom he has mentored. “Can you bring me my coat,”he implores,”and my books? And can you come quickly, for winter is coming soon.” The letter, carried on the back of an animal, starts on its 600-mile journey. It will not be delivered soon. In a few short months the old man will be dead, killed as a martyr for his faith while those of his own faith a few miles away do nothing.”(excerpted from “Bright Days Dark Nights” by Elizabeth Skoglund with Charles Spurgeon)
Spurgeon goes on to describe the “frightful den”, “the horrid dungeon” and “the filth that lies upon the floor” in the place where the apostle Paul is being kept. He wonders aloud where all the believers are and why they have forgotten their beloved apostle. He asks this:
“Why did not the few who were in Rome, if they had been never so poor, make a contribution for him? Could not those who were of Caesar’s household, have found a cloak for the apostle? No, he is so utterly left, that although he is ready to die (from the cold) in the dungeon, not a soul will lend or give him a cloak. What patience does this teach to those similarly situated? Has it fallen to thy lot, my brother, to be forsaken of friends? Were there other times when your name was the symbol of popularity, when many lived in your favour like insects in your sunbeam- and has it come to this now, that you are forgotten as a dead man…? In your greatest trials do you find your fewest friends? Have those who once loved and respected you, fallen asleep in Jesus? And have others turned out to be hypocritical and untrue? What are you to do now? You are to remember this case of the apostle; IT IS PUT HERE FOR YOUR COMFORT. He had to pass through as deep waters as any that you are called to (cross), and yet remember, he says, ‘Notwithstanding the Lord stood with me, and strengthened me.’ So now, when man deserts you, God will be your friend.”
Spurgeon then advises the Christian to do this:
“Go to Him, spread your complaint before Him. Murmur not. If Paul had to suffer desertion, you must not expect better usage…David has his Ahithophel, Christ his Judas, Paul his Demas, and can you expect to fare better than they? As you look at that old cloak, as it speaks of human ingratitude, be of good courage, and wait on the Lord, for he shall strengthen thy heart. ‘Wait, I say, on the Lord.’”
I love this small quote of Spurgeon’s describing raw human emotion: “Fancy with her magic wand is busy at creating sorrows.”
He continues with further encouragement for the distressed Christian:
“Furthermore, remember that even after you are secure in Christ, and accepted before God, and clothed in Jesus’ righteousness, you may sometimes get despondent. Christian men are but men, and they may have a bad liver or an attack of bile, or some trial, and then they get depressed if they have ever so much grace. I would defy the apostle Paul himself to help it. But what then? Why then you can get joy and peace through believing. I am the subject of depressions of spirit so fearful that I hope none of you ever get to such extremes of wretchedness as I go to, but I always get back again by this- I know I trust Christ. I have no reliance but in Him, and if He falls I shall fall with Him, but if He does not, I shall not. Because He lives, I shall live also, and I spring to my legs again and fight with my depressions of spirit and my downcastings, and get the victory through it; so may you do, and so you must, for there is no other way of escaping from it. In your most depressed seasons you are to get joy and peace through believing…Do stick to this, dear friends, ‘Though He slay me, yet will I trust in Him.’”
My prayer is that in some small way this post may bring some bit of comfort to anyone who is in need. In these days of John Piper, Paul Washer, etc. let us not forget our elders who have gone before us…those who have “finished the race”…for there is godly wisdom to be gleaned from them.
I leave you with one more Spurgeonism:
“And what is more,-let this comfort you,- He will come to you, for He did come to His disciples. He came walking on the water, and so reached them, and He will come for you also.”
“Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, 4who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God. 5For just as the sufferings of Christ flow over into our lives, so also through Christ our comfort overflows. 6If we are distressed, it is for your comfort and salvation; if we are comforted, it is for your comfort, which produces in you patient endurance of the same sufferings we suffer. 7And our hope for you is firm, because we know that just as you share in our sufferings, so also you share in our comfort.”-2 Cor.1:3-7
God’s grace and comfort be yours!












{ 15 comments… read them below or add one }
RM
Thank you for those words of comfort. They are very much needed.
May God’s grace and comfort be yours and your family’s.
Keep up the good fight.
Hi Mark~
Aw…you are always so encouraging! Thank you.
I hope our families can spend more time together in the future…next Agape feast?? You guys are a joy to our church body…may God send more like you…
Say hello to the women of the home…looking forward to worshipping with you all on tomorrow’s Lord’s Day!
Blessed reminder! Oh, how we need grace! Grace and Peace to all the brothers and sisters! Looking forward to seeing you tomorrow!
RM,
Thank you for that word of encouragement. It really means a lot to me and my family right now.
Prayers… My son (Daniel) just went back into the hospital with an infection in his lungs, my Uncle passed away last week and my wife’s grandmother passed away this morning. Please pray for the schedules that are trying to work themselves out and that those in the family that are believers would be a shining light to those that are not. Especially that my wife and I would have wisdom with her family. We are trying to be a witness to them (they are RC) and are praying how to witness without offending.
Mario~
Thanks for the support!
You are always a blessing…whether we are discussing the blog, hearing you preach or praying with you! Thank you for heading up Power & Prayer…it is a time of refreshing among God’s people and we appreciate you serving our church body! Last night was amazing. Praise God!
God’s grace to you & Jennyn this week…
Hope this adds to the encouragement thread! =) (Glen I just prayed for you guys)
Php 4:4 Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, Rejoice.
Php 4:5 Let your reasonableness be known to everyone. The Lord is at hand;
Php 4:6 do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.
Php 4:7 And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
Php 4:8 Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.
Glen~
I am so encouraged that you found comfort here!
You all have been in my prayers today. Your present trials are many…thank you for sharing your burdens, I was wondering how your baby was doing. Please pass on hugs to your family from your BT family and update us on all you are going through when you are able.
I hear you on the RC family members. Ours are recent Eastern Orthodox converts…and wow…the pain we have experienced. There is much I could say and will probably blog about it in the future. The line you walk between loving family and not compromising God’s word is a thin one and I will also keep this in my prayers for you guys.
May the God of all comfort be with you.
Wow. Reformed Mama you have sunk to new lows. Preaching to the choir of Faith Defenders and bemoaning the state of your family. I thought when you mentioned blogging the other night that it was wonderful that you were expressing yourself in writing. I had no idea it was just the newest outlet for your frustrations. Well, tell the blogging world then…and may you receive much comfort as you wallow in self pity. What a shame. There are so many good things to write about but all you can think about is the waywardness of your deceived family and the pain it has caused you. And to think…. I thought things were improving between all of us. Guess not.
Dear “Mama”,
I was reading your blog and was considering answering. My dear wife, however, answered against my direction, permission and blessing.
I was just listening to an Orthodox Priest (Fr. Patrick Henry Reardon) talking about the Cities of Refuge in the Old Testament. He hypothesized that one of the reasons God established such things was to allow the wronged person some time for reason to come back to them. In the “heat” of our passion, we make unreasoned decisions that cause us to sin. God built “time” in these laws to allow us to “cool down” and reason these things out.
I’m afraid much of our problems have stemmed from passions taking over instead of reason.
Please forgive me for my rash, harsh and sinful tongue, my Sister.
Jayna~
Though I am used to the way you lash out, as shown above in your comment, you could have just asked some questions and my answers may have clarified things for you.
First, this blog was privately established and is privately managed. Only a handful of the people here have anything to do with FD. Thousands come through and it is used as a ministry. We are always teaching, as the Bible instructs! So, when I said above that I may blog about Orthodoxy, I meant the subject of it. Obviously my personal experience will come into the post, but the post itself will be about a particular book that I have discussed with one of the moderators.
Secondly, whenever we have gotten together all of you have been treated kindly by us. We are able to laugh and talk, making the best of things. However, I do apologize if we have given you the idea that we are warming up to Orthodoxy. We are not. It remains a false church. You are correct when you say you are “deceived”.
Thirdly, I have posted many articles. Orthodoxy is NOT all I think about but, when the Lord reminds, I do pray for you all. I also know that I have a Scriptural obligation to warn you and others of Orthodoxy’s charms. One of the ways to do this is to study and write about Orthodoxy, by God’s grace, may He use me for His glory! It is not an outlet for “frustrations” or “self pity”, but a concern for souls that motivates me.
We simply have a difference in authority…our final authority is Scripture, yours is “the church”.
We love you.
Kent~
Thank you for your kind reply and explanation. I find that my sister’s words sting as always.
We enjoyed our time at dinner a few weeks ago and our warm exchange regarding a subject close to my heart, abortion. I only mentioned the blog because we were discussing that subject.
Please understand, I realize we couldn’t disagree more regarding Eastern Orthodoxy. You must do what you must do and so must we.
We send our love.
Mama ~
Be assured of my prayers for you and your family each day and night.
May our great God and Savior Jesus Christ continue to reform all of our souls, especially me, who is in need of the most reform.
God be with you,
Kent
Mama ~
I am worried that this comment will elicit a reply from you, and then I will get into an agruement. As unbelievable as this may seem, that is the last thing I want.
When my Dad’s dog sniffs something or goes toward something that my dad doesn’t want him to get, the command he gives is “Leave it!”. I will post this and then I will “leave it.”
You ended your comments to my wife with, “We simply have a difference in authority…our final authority is Scripture, yours is “the church”. Actually, I’d say (and I’m sure you’d agree) that the final authority is Christ our God. After all, Christ is The Word and The Church (Acts 9:4). We would not limit Him by saying “Christ as revealed in the scriptures” for nothing can contain God. Not even the divine scriptures.
Please criticize myself or any member of the Orthodox Church as much as you want. We Orthodox are all sinners and deserving of every scorn and criticizim. I am exceedingly selfish, arrogant and rude in all I say, and you are right to think that. But PLEASE be VERY careful, my dear sister, criticizing The Church.
Please forgive my forwardness in this exchange; but I felt it necessary.
Much love,
Kent
Dear Kent,
I don’t fully understand why you would go ahead and do something that you know ahead of time will lead to something you do not want. This doesn’t make much sense, and it calls your personal ethics into question. It would have been more consistent for you to not say anything at all since you believe that doing so would bring about the last thing that you want. My guess is that you do want an argument.
But rather than granting you an argument for argument’s sake, I believe there is enough propositional content in your comment to warrant a debate (i.e. rational, intelligible dispute). I know that debate and argument are generally synonymous, but I think the distinguishing factor here is the absence or presence of emotional barriers and other psychological ailments caused by the sinful effects of the flesh. I’m sure you’re aware of this since you said you’re familiar with “passions taking over instead of reason.”
With that said, I must admit the humor in your “leave it” paragraph. If you take it to its logical end, you are saying that you are less obedient than your dad expects his dog to be. This certainly can’t be a very good example to set for others, can it? If your dad’s dog was about to commit a doggy no-no [DNN] and your dad says “leave it!”, would your dad be pleased if his dog momentarily disobeyed its master’s command, went ahead and committed the DNN, and then continued in supposed obedience and “left it?” Would your dad pat it on the head and say, “Good dog?” Or would the disobedience have negated the immediate adherence to the command leaving no earned reward but a rolled up newspaper slap on the snout? Essentially this is what you’ve done. Anyhow, it made me chuckle for a bit…
You said: “…that the final authority is Christ our God. After all, Christ is The Word and The Church (Acts 9:4). We would not limit Him by saying “Christ as revealed in the scriptures” for nothing can contain God. Not even the divine scriptures.”
I appreciate your attempt at a tertium quid, but as an Orthodox adherent you must be warned that the method of reasoning espoused in your reply to Reformed Mama is of the variety that produced the Apollinarian heresies condemned by Athanasius as well as in the First Council of Constantinople. I’m sure you’re aware of the controversy and the methods involved, and thus should appreciate the warning. If you’re not, ask an Orthodox person who is advanced in learning regarding church history and philosophy and they will explain it to you.
More important though, are the philosophic contradictions and logical impossibilities that render your position irrational.
First, you attempt to solve the problem of Scripture vs. church as they pertain to “final authority” and offer the tertium quid, “Christ our God.” So far, at this point, you stand shoulder to shoulder with countless heretical schismatics. This basically says nothing (these days). To prove that it is a self-referentially incoherent proposition, all one has to do is take notice of your appeal to Scripture as the authority in order to validate it.
Why quote from Luke’s writings (SCRIPTURE) to establish your proposition that Christ is The Word and The Church? Or that “Christ our God” is the final authority? You should be able to establish your premise “without appealing to Scripture” as the final authority, that is, “if” your proposition is true. If you can’t, then you continue to remain in a confused and inconsistent state of predicament in denying the validity of the basic premise of Protestantism while depending on it to make your disputation.
This is self-refuting. So, your task is to establish the premise as true without appealing to Scripture or anything else (or else the “anything else” becomes the “final authority”). Protestants do not suffer this tension when saying that “Scripture is the Word of God and the final authority in religious controversy.” We justify this statement by appealing to the very Scriptures we claim as the final authority. We do not need to appeal to any other source as borrowed authority in order to establish the validity of our authority. Scripture is also the objective rule of faith in which we judge all religious systems that compete for the souls of men, including the various systems called “Christianity.”
Second, you said, “We would not limit Him by saying ‘Christ as revealed in the scriptures’ for nothing can contain God. Not even the divine scriptures.”
Now, the easy way to demonstrate the logical impossibility of denying Scripture as the final authority is to take your statement, “nothing can contain God…” and demand that you define what you mean by the term “God” and how you know that nothing can contain “God.” Your feet are held to the fire as you scramble to try and answer without appealing to Scripture as the final authority.
But again, you show yourself to be at great odds with the Fathers. When the early heretics ran around with aberrant teachings, their method of promotion and advancement was to circumvent what was established as the authority in the established churches, i.e., the special revelation of God first handed down orally then wholly committed to writing, as Irenaeus said, “by the will of God.” This is where the use of the Ante-Nicean noun “tradition” comes from. The verb in the Greek for “handed down” is literally rendered “traditioned.” Whenever there was a controversial doctrine floating around, the early church refuted it by appealing to the Scriptures. This ancient Jewish tradition (the principle of sola scriptura) can also be seen in the Prophet Isaiah who said that if anyone does not speak in accordance to the law & prophets (i.e. Scripture) then he does not have any light (Isaiah uses “the light of dawn” to emphasize the absolute epistemological darkness). Your denial pits you against Irenaeus (venerated EO & RC Saint) who’s famous saying affirms the principle of sola scriptura: “Scripture is the ground and pillar of the faith.”
Furthermore, you are confusing the revelation of God with the nature and being of God. No one here has stated that the nature and being of God is fully contained in the divine scriptures. You are using a straw man to give your synthesis a false impression of value, when all it is is a poor category fallacy. If it was a simple error on your part then simply admit to it, accept the consequences and discard the use of it moving forward (this is part of the reform you admit to needing). If it was not a simple error but rather an intellectually dishonest maneuver to advance your position among the supposedly unsuspecting layfolks here, then stand exposed in the light and hear our call for your repentance. I see only these two options here. Perhaps you can offer a tertium quid?
Read how Scripture testifies of itself, and accept it as God’s Word and submit to it for there is no excuse for rejecting it:
2PE 1:19 We have also a more sure word of prophecy; whereunto ye do well that ye take heed, as unto a light that shineth in a dark place, until the day dawn, and the day star arise in your hearts. 21 For the prophecy came not in old time by the will of man: but holy men of God spake as they were moved by the Holy Ghost.
2TI 3:16 All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness.
1JO 5:9 If we receive the witness of men, the witness of God is greater: for this is the witness of God which he hath testified of his Son.
1 TH 2:13 For this cause also thank we God without ceasing, because, when ye received the word of God which ye heard of us, ye received it not as the word of men, but as it is in truth, the word of God, which effectually worketh also in you that believe.
Read how the Westminster Divines summarized this biblical teaching:
IV. The authority of the Holy Scripture, for which it ought to be believed, and obeyed, depends not upon the testimony of any man, or Church; but wholly upon God (who is truth itself) the author thereof: and therefore it is to be received, because it is the Word of God. – WCF 1.4
The Divines further clarified the early church’s consistent application of the principle of sola scriptura and added it to the close of the first section of the Confession:
X. The supreme judge by which all controversies of religion are to be determined, and all decrees of councils, opinions of ancient writers, doctrines of men, and private spirits, are to be examined, and in whose sentence we are to rest, can be no other but the Holy Spirit speaking in the Scripture. – WCF 1.10
Third (of 3), you said, “Please criticize myself or any member of the Orthodox Church as much as you want. We Orthodox are all sinners and deserving of every scorn and criticizim. I am exceedingly selfish, arrogant and rude in all I say, and you are right to think that. But PLEASE be VERY careful, my dear sister, criticizing The Church.”
You quote from Ac. 9 to establish that Christ is The Church based on his question to Saul, “why are you persecuting me?” In the paragraph above you make a distinction between members of the Orthodox Church and The Church. You approve of criticizing members of the Orthodox Church but warn against criticizing The Church (whom I am supposing you consider the Christ).
The problem I see here is that it was Saul’s persecution of the “people” of the church that Christ considered persecution of him. I believe that you are guilty of equivocation and thus your muddled thinking on this subject.
BUT, how do you protect against being charged with giving an open invitation to persecute Christ? Are you asking people to persecute the Christ?
Hi Kent,
You said:
“I’m afraid much of our problems have stemmed from passions taking over instead of reason.”
That is usually the case. I’m just curious if you consider yourself a mystic or what? If so, mystics NEVER use reason, instead they use emotional feelings similar to what you would find at a Shirley McClain conference or at the household of “Kim and Kath.”
You seem like a nice person, but depending on your theological position, you may be going to hell. The issue of authority is an essential doctrine of the Christian faith.
Respectfully,
Jean Cauvin (Jude 3).